Hehe, something similar waits for me tomorow evening, I don't know how these parties are being called in English, but it's gonna be Women - only party, and I am one of the guys that have a chance to be there. There is gonna be Bachelors and stuff...
And lol, grinding is something you very monotoniously do and do and do and do and do, like hitting mobs to level up or gathering resourcess to craft some piece of equipment in Lineage 2... At least that's how I see it